I’m not big on shopping, unless it’s for used books. You won’t find me willingly subjecting myself to the frenzied crowds competing for bargains on the busiest shopping day of the year. My little sister has a mean streak—she told me that in the past she’s had a date with a friend to go out the day after Thanksgiving to mingle with the masses, and that she doesn’t really care about the hot deals but she sometimes likes to have fun by carelessly picking up a desirable item and watching the desperate shoppers squirm while they wait for her to decide whether she’s a serious buyer or not.
My sister is also much more organized than I. I think her Christmas shopping was finished last summer, but I am a procrastinator, and I am starting to feel the pressure. We keep it pretty low-key as far as presents go, but we do celebrate with gift-giving and with our large clan plus family far away, it’s still an organizational coup d’etat to make it work. That’s why I spent some time yesterday shopping—online.
I have a pretty good idea of the presents I intend to give everyone this year. So I went to some websites that I thought would have as many of those items in one place as possible: Target and Walmart. Several times we have debated whether or not we should patronize Walmart at all. With the amount of socks and underwear we consume (so to speak), Walmart can be a very appealing one-stop shopping place. Yet the unappealing corporate shenanigans and the way it overruns communities with its cheap imported goods, make us have a twinge of guilt when we give our money to the box-store behemoth. Last night, perusing its website, made me have more than a twinge…it was a spasm of angry indignation.
It wasn’t long ago that Walmart engaged in some “family-friendly” responses to concerns about explicit music and inappropriate magazine covers in checkout lines. Imagine my shock and disgust when I looked for some books on their website and found that they have a special category for “Gay and Lesbian” books. It lists “hot new titles” and “talked-about titles,” including a children’s book and a book about why “gay” marriage is good for America. If you click on a title, it will take you to a description of the book with recommendations of other books.
I clicked on the children’s book, The Boy Who Cried Fabulous, and read the description. It didn’t give me any clues as to why it was included in that section, so I decided to read more about it at Amazon. There I found that it is a story about a “gentle” boy, which must be why it would be appealing to homosexuals, since it’s about a male who is in touch with his feminine side. At Amazon, there is a feature where patrons can make book lists for others. On the page with this book there was a list called “Rainbow Families: Picture Books About LGBTQ Families” from an “elementary teacher.” Okay. I looked at the list and many were obvious propaganda pieces to pervert the thinking of small children about family and relationships (i.e. Gloria Goes to Gay Pride). More insidious, however, were the books which are not so overt, but have subtle and subversive touches. For example, Everywhere Babies appears to be a cute picture book which celebrates the joy of babies. One of the online reviewers had this to say about the book:
I love how inclusive this book is. We all love the illustrations. My daughter seems to love the rhythym to the words, because she always asks for “more” when I read it to her, even if she’s half asleep and not paying too much attention to the pictures.
And to anyone who didn’t like the book simply because it has one of two (subtle) pictures of same sex couples, that’s a shame. And I think you missed the point of the book, big time. Everyday, everywhere, babies ARE being raised by two mommies or two daddies, or bi-racial couples. And those babies are loved just as much as yours are.
I’m hoping my daughter DOES eventually notice in the pictures that not all these families look like hers. A little more tolerance of our differences would make this world a better place.
I think the shame is that this children’s book is a tool being used to promote a perverse, self-destructive and God-hating lifestyle. I have another picture book from the same illustrator, which I really like, The Seven Silly Eaters. It’s a sweet story about a big family with a loving mother and father in traditional roles. If I had seen this baby book in the library (and our county system has four copies of it), I probably would have checked it out unwittingly, based on my opinion of the illustrator’s other book.
We are being bombarded with images, movies, books and propaganda from many sources, trying to break down the natural repugnance people feel toward the unnatural idea of same-sex intimacy. Rather than becoming complacent about this perversion, we need to be on guard from these assaults on the family. Having a proper view of the seriousness of all sin, starting with our own, is crucial, but the Bible makes clear that homosexuality is the last stop on the downhill slide for one who persists in rejecting God. It is also a sin for which there is forgiveness, but only following repentance, which means that it cannot ever be accepted as normal and good if there is to be forgiveness and healing.
Target was even worse than Walmart, with a feature on the front page of the movie section (where I was looking for DVDs) for its “Gay and Lesbian” films. If places like Walmart and Target, two of the biggest retailers to families, boldly promote this filth, then Otto Scott was right when he told some friends a few years ago that our country is “in the chute.”
Keep fighting the good fight by protecting, strengthening and training those children in righteousness, because they will be facing even bigger battles than we do now.